📕书籍信息
- 书名:How to Know a Person
- 作者:David Brooks
- 豆瓣评分:⭐7.6
- 出版社:Random House
- isbn:DB-36614245
- 出版日期:2023-10-24
- 价格:USD 30.00
- 豆瓣:How to Know a Person
🌵内容简介
【编辑推荐】:
A practical, heartfelt guide to the art of truly knowing another person in order to foster deeper connections at home, at work, and throughout our lives—from the #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Road to Character and The Second Mountain
As David Brooks observes, “There is one skill that lies at the heart of any healthy person, family, school, community organization, or society: the ability to see someone else deeply and make them feel seen—to accurately know another person, to let them feel valued, heard, and understood.”
And yet we humans don’t do this well. All around us are people who feel invisible, unseen, misunderstood. In How to Know a Person, Brooks sets out to help us do better, posing questions that are essential for all of us: If you want to know a person, what kind of attention should you cast on them? What kind of conversations should you have? What parts of a person’s story should you pay attention to?
Driven by his trademark sense of curiosity and his determination to grow as a person, Brooks draws from the fields of psychology and neuroscience and from the worlds of theater, philosophy, history, and education to present a welcoming, hopeful, integrated approach to human connection. How to Know a Person helps readers become more understanding and considerate toward others, and to find the joy that comes from being seen. Along the way it offers a possible remedy for a society that is riven by fragmentation, hostility, and misperception.
The act of seeing another person, Brooks argues, is profoundly creative: How can we look somebody in the eye and see something large in them, and in turn, see something larger in ourselves? How to Know a Person is for anyone searching for connection, and yearning to be understood.
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🧐讀書筆記 –
I read this biok because Bill Gates recommended in his Blog. After reading, I found the book is really good.
We want to know how to know a person. But it is really mot easy. You need to know how a person becomes who he is. What impacted his personality. What he went through till the time you meet him. Where is he in his life journey?
And the purpose of knowing a person is not just knowing him, but to know how to work/live with him. Then you should also know what different kind of people want and how they react.
The book tells you about all the points mentioned above. You will find your own answer by yourself.

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